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Tithing – A Critical Practice To Being Prosperous And Happy
Published on 19 May 2011 at 5:53 am.
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“The more we discover the magnitude and abundance of God’s gifts, the more we will find ourselves.” ~ Mother Theresa
“Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into” ~ Wayne Dyer
In a conversation with a dear friend and colleague, the subject of money and abundance came up. She has had a very prosperous year personally and in her business despite all the media reports of the economic climate.
Was her marketing expertise and knowledge the most important keys to her success and abundance? Yes….and no.
First, I want to make a comment about abundance. In most dictionaries abundance is defined as, “A great or plentiful amount, an overflowing fullness, and an over-sufficiency and wealth.”
Often people equate abundance strictly in terms of money and they miss out in recognizing all the forms abundance can take in addition to money such as having an abundance of love, time, health, support from friends and colleagues, happy memories, knowledge, being willing to forgive….
Being prosperous means giving and receiving abundance with joyfull gratitude and humility for the gifts and blessings that flow to and from you.
Give what you most want to receive in your life for the joy of prospering another, NOT for the purpose of getting something in return. You cannot enjoy the riches of the universe unless you are willing to share them with others. This is the meaning of the Law of Abundance, or The Divine Law if Prosperity.
The spirit of this law asks us to take an action in order to express thanks for the abundance that has already manifested in our life and for the greater good that is yet to come.
So, I asked her, “What else contributed to your having such a great financial and abundant year while many folks are struggling to pay their bills?”
She said two things added to her success…
The first was really listening to her inner guidance, inspiration, and instincts to make business and life decisions that aligned with her spirit.
That’s what I believe is a key factor in having a prosperous life – listening to and following the calling of your heart.
Second?
She tithes consistently.
I have always admired her generosity and loving spirit.
My favorite book on tithing is written by my good friend Paula Langguth Ryan called, Giving Thanks: The Art of Tithing.
What exactly is a tithe?
On page 22, Paula says, “Tithing is about saying thank you which always begins with putting some gratitude in our attitude. Giving thanks is about tithing with our money, but also with our thoughts, words, actions, time, efforts, and possessions.”
She reminds us to give thanks by sharing a loving and gratefull heart with everyone and everything that comes into our life for the role they play even if that role is unwelcome.
She also says that,“ Tithing proves us with a proven systematic way to multiply our good through a demonstration of our willingness to give back one-tenth of everything we‘ve been given. Paula emphasizes that, “You do not an obligation to tithe, you have an opportunity to tithe.”
We tithe as a gesture of gratitude for what we have already been given and as a symbol of our gratitude for and faith in the fact that greater good is coming to us. Tithing is a way of showing we are ready, willing, and able to embrace that increased abundance.
The word tithe is based on the word tenth, which is believed to be a powerfull number of increase. When we joyfully and selflessly givethanks to God by sharing one tenth of the good we receive, we connect to the flow of abundance and our blessings are multiplied tenfold, even one hundredfold.”
Tithing is an act of faith rather than a duty or obligation. Tithing might be called a love offering, a free will gift or blessing that is shared willingly with another without any expectation of repayment. The size of the gift does not matter, the intention of the offering does.
Everything that is freely given with thanks will be multiplied and returned to you in expected and unexpected ways – The Divine Law of Prosperity
Are you hoarding your good?
Do you withhold sharing with others because you fear you won’t have enough?
Do you look to get as much as you can for free?
And how would you feel about receiving bountiful riches without doing ANYTHING?
Scarcity thinking and poverty consciousness will constantly block the flow of abundance, money, and opportunities coming into your life that the Universe desires to give you.
In essence, because we are all connected in Oneness, what you withhold from sharing with others, you withhold from yourself. In the joyfullness of giving, you automatically receive.
Prosperity and abundance isn’t just about having money. Imagine having more joy, more love, health and vitality, greater freedom, peace of mind, and time to be with the people and things you love.
A consistent practice with tithing will increase your inner wisdom, judgment, health, wealth, fulfillment in relationships, spiritual connection, and open your receptivity to receive what you truly need without fear or expectations.
Give with joyfull thanksgiving rather than annoyance, desperation, frustration, or in the hopes and expectation of getting something back. Give without strings attached as you would offer any gift from the heart.
Imagine what you can then share with others?
Who to tithe to?
Give freely and generously to those who spiritually nourish and feed you. Your local spiritual centers, leaders, teachers, mentors are great places to begin.
Personally, I often tithe money to friends and colleagues who have been of service to me by offering me healing sessions, business advice and expertise. I also enjoy gifting to my local non-profit organization that feeds families in the area so they don’t go hungry.
Tithe to whoever brings you spiritual inspiration, joy, help, and comfort… as a way of saying “thank you” to God and to them.” Be sure to write your tithe check first even if you cannot initially give a full 10%.
If you are not tithing consistently because you fear not “having enough” your fear is blocking the flow of money and abundance flowing to YOU. Your fear is creating the ongoing experience of struggle and lack in your life.
Tithe with joy and gratitude.
Open your heart, mind, and body to recognize all the gifts, blessings, and miracles of abundance that flows to you. You can change your life experience with money and abundance now by sharing your talents, gifts, time, expertise, AND money generously.
Be on the lookout for the many forms abundance takes from the penny on the sidewalk, a smile from a stranger, a new client, a thank you email from a grateful client for friend, a new business opportunity…
Track your blessings daily in a journal and remember to say “Thank you.” for EVERY love offering that comes to you and share freely when you feel guided to bless another.
What comes back might not initially be in the form of money. For example, you might receive ideas, resources, connections to others, that will improve your financial situation is the long term.
Be open to receive the delightful ways the Universe responds to your desires, needs when you open your heart and checkbook in faith and gratitude.
Begin today and allow the abundance of the Universe to flow to you and through you.
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Love and blessings,
Lorraine
www.powerfull-living.biz
www.isayyesnow.com
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gloria guile on 25 Nov 2011 at 4:27 am: 2
I consider myself a generous and a giver but people sometimes wonder why I give too much when I need to look after myself first, If only that all tithing and giving I did is returned I would of able to extend more to a lot of people that required my help this is honest but I dont ask anyone I only want to extend more help but how this seem to hard.
lorraine on 25 Nov 2011 at 8:43 am: 3
To be a great giver you must also be a great receiver Gloria. That includes reaching out to others to allow them to love and support you. I invite you to consider a few things: When you offer help to another in any way, is it it of a sense of obligation, responsibility, or because you feel they won’t be ok without your help? Or, do you serve others for the pure joy of it without any attachment to what others return to you? The essence and intention of tithing comes from the second – for the pure joy of it, trusting that all we could ever want or need is supplied by God (The Divine, Jesus, Higher Power) rather from any person, or thing. Tithing is our way of saying “Thank you” with graitude to that Divine presence for all we have a receive daily. Tithing money, love, time, wisdom to others a deep place of love with NO attachment to what the other does or does not do will attract more good into your life. Your words suggest some judgments and disappointment which creates an attachment in your giving. And if you don’t ask for help and allow others to be of service to you, you are actually blocking your flow. That would be an indication to take a closer look at the beliefs you have about “deserving” and self-love. Blessings, Lorraine
Debbie on 28 Nov 2011 at 1:25 pm: 4
Wonderful article, we started tithing again after a few hours of not tithing. Our life is turning around again. Thanks for the reminder of doing something right.
lorraine on 28 Nov 2011 at 2:28 pm: 5
It’s easy to forget to do Debbie. Good for you in returning to this powerfull practice. Something I also need to do today. Blessings, Lorraine
Debbie on 28 Nov 2011 at 4:38 pm: 6
lol I ment a few years…
lorraine on 28 Nov 2011 at 4:49 pm: 7
How funny – I actually read it the first time to mean that it had been some time!. I got the gist! LOL