What Must I Become?
Published on 17 Jan 2010 at 9:32 am.
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5 Steps to Become The Best You That You Can Be
Most of us live a life filled with regret about what we are not. We castigate ourselves for falling short, for not being a better person, for not being more successful. We look at others and aspire to be like them. We would like to be a better relationship partner, a better parent, a more compassionate person, a more ambitious individual, a better educated person, a more intuitive individual, a more gifted businessperson, a better caregiver, a more patient individual…it goes on and on.
So rather than contemplate what we are not (which of course attracts more of that which we don’t want to be), why not set out to ask and establish WHAT I MUST BECOME?
This is a key question, one that can really shift your focus. It’s not about what you can achieve. It’s not about what you can acquire. It’s about becoming someone who has a higher resonance in the Universe, someone who can be a more perfect and fulfilling YOU!
By really thinking through this question you can begin to create a template for the complete person into which you want to evolve. We know that one must have a clear vision of what you want in order to create and attract the support for it.
By contemplating WHAT I MUST BECOME?, you can generate a full picture of where you are headed–and gain Universal support for your striving to become that person. You can’t just depend on the Universe, you must take action, but answering this question is the first step in becoming the Unlimited Person that you are desirous to be.
Step One: So sit down with a computer or a pen and begin with this question at the top of the page: WHAT I MUST BECOME?
Step Two: Now break this down further:
1. What general traits would I like to develop, improve or enhance? Think about where you have fallen short in the past. Where you have become emotional or out of control? Certainly for me, patience is my number one quest for myself…and I know this to be true for many of us. What about letting go of judgment? Handling anger differently? Being more positive, hopeful and upbeat, more trusting or more tactful and thoughtful? Being kinder? Be more generous and grateful?
2. To whom would I like to relate better and what part can I play in that? Parents, children, spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, lovers, boss, people I work with our supervise, friends, teachers or mentors, clerks at stores, waiters, neighbors, people who want something from me, people in need, etc….
3. What habits or traits would I like to develop to create greater inner peace? Calmness under pressure? Acceptance of how things are instead of how I want them to be? A daily practice of meditation or tai chi/qigong? More reading time for spiritual books? More reflection time? Release of my need to always be right or have the last word. Forgiving anyone with whom I am angry? More physical activity? What else?
4. What traits can I develop to be more successful professionally? Better focus? Better people skills? Punctuality? Less time on the Internet and more networking? Study other successful professional people? Reach out to a coach or mentor? Release myself from the “I have to do it all or it won’t be right syndrome?” Learn new professional skills you’ve been resisting? Be more willing to share? Better money management? More willing to get expertise from others? You get the idea.
5. What would you like to change about how you look at and treat yourself? Being more forgiving? Being less critical? Being more patient and tolerant? Being more nurturing and compassionate? Being willing to receive help? Being more open hearted and loving?
Step Three: From these, create a picture of WHAT YOU WILL BECOME. Write a full description of you as the person who embodies all of these qualities.
Step Four: Now make a list of actions that you will take to move yourself toward becoming the individual you have pictured.
Step Five: Implement your list of actions.
By focusing your mind, your attention and your time on willing yourself to be a new-and-improved YOU, you can go from WHAT I MUST BECOME? to WHAT I AM! May the process be easier and more effortless than you can imagine!
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Conscious Creation Tip - Rituals of Release
Sometimes you just have to do something! It’s not enough to just think about releasing a belief or a fear from you life. You need to take action in order to make it more REAL and tangible in your life. There are a number of really rituals that you can utilize to let go of old and unwanted beliefs, feelings and fear. These include:
- Writing it on a piece of paper and burying it
- Writing it on a piece of paper and burning it
- Putting a note in a bottle of water and freezing it (a great way to get rid of unwanted and unpleasant people in your life, too)
- Dumping it in the ocean or a river
- Shooting it out to the edge of Universe
- Dumping it into the trash can
- Stepping thru a new door and closing the old one
State your new intention at the time of this release. Let these rituals help free you of the past so you can go BOLDLY into the future!
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Submitted by Jackin Lapin:
Jackie Lapin tours the world teaching Conscious Creation and Personal Frequency Management. She is the author of “The Art of Conscious Creation; How You Can Transform the World.” Sign up to receive Jackie Lapin’s life-changing fr*ee ebook: Beyond The Law Of Attraction: How Conscious Creation Can Help You Create The Blueprint For Your Future by going to http://www.theartofconsciouscreation.com/blueprint-ebook.html. To explore more books on Conscious Creation, go to Jackie’s online bookstore for the Conscious Creator, www.manifestbooks.com, where you can also sign up to receive a Manifesting Tip a Day.
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