Cell Phone Etiquette - Are You Making Major Blunders?
Published on 23 Jun 2008 at 8:38 am.
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Productive Cell Phone Etiquette by Neen James
You may remember a time before there were cell phones…a time when communications within organizations was more controlled and within business hours. Cell phones have created an ‘open all hours’ mentality for business (and pleasure). People now assume they can reach you at all hours and we have become dependent on the flexibility they give us.
There once was a time we had to schedule, plan, co-ordinate and know our way to a meeting or luncheon. Cell phones have now become a major distractor as we use them for phone conversations, receiving email and texting. I often see people in meetings not paying attention (checking their blackberry), couples at dinner (looking under the table at their phones for text and email) and parents supposedly playing with their kids or watching them play sport (while checking their messages). It is time to master phone etiquette, be fully present in conversations and stand out in the crowd.
- Just ask. When my cell phone rings the first question I ask my caller is “how can I help you today?’ This simple, but polite question ensures they get right to the point, avoids chit chat, and ensures we are not spending too much time on the phone. If the caller is in for a long chat I suggest another time we can connect. Try this simple question and see if you spend less (not more) time on your cell phone.
- Be present. If you are on the phone with a caller, give them your undivided attention. Too often we proudly ‘multi-task’ and don’t fully tune into conversations. This wastes time, kills productivity and causes us to miss important facts, ask for information to be restated and we can also miss ‘reading between the lines’ in conversations. Be fully present in your cell phone conversations.
- Your voicemail. Create an informative voicemail message that provides callers with information about you and when you will get back to them. You might simply include your name, business name, contact details and/or website. Where possible try to record the message yourself so your callers hear your voice when they phone, instead of an automated voice message.
- Size matters. Be considerate when leaving voicemails. This is not a time to tell a long and detailed story. It is the perfect opportunity to provide the facts about why you called, what you need and when they can get back to you.
- Clear out. Daily check your voicemail messages and ensure you clear out all messages and return them within 24 hours wherever possible.
- Reply quickly. Because of its immediacy, people expect fast replies to their voicemails. A response within 24-hours is probably as long as most people would consider appropriate. If you are unable to answer within 24 hours ensure your outgoing message tells callers when you will get back to them.
- Watch your tone. Business communications used to all share a fairly dull, formal tone of voice however voicemail is more informal and conversational. It does allow for a more casual and personal approach. Ensure you always use a greeting (‘Hi’, ‘Hello’, ‘Good morning’ and ‘Good afternoon’ are probably more common ) and a sign off (‘looking forward to hearing from you’ or ‘ have a great day’).
- Don’t answer. There are times when a cell phone should be switched to silent mode or completely turned off including the movies, meetings, meals in public places, church, temple and funerals. It is also inappropriate to answer in the bathroom (not to mention unhygienic!). Voicemail is a great resource for these times when you are unable to answer your phone.
- Ask permission. When you are phoning someone on their cell phone inquire if this is a good time to talk. This simple question will allow them to respond and ensure you have a productive conversation. If it is not convenient to chat they can then suggest an alternative time.
- Open hours. Common etiquette used to state you should never call someone before 9.00 am and after 9.00 pm. While business may open earlier than 9.00 am, this is a good standard to adhere to. Unless your know your colleague or client is an early riser it is best to wait until 9.00 am to call and to avoid ever calling clients after 9.00 pm at night.
- Out of office. Just like an email ‘Out of Office’, if you are going to be unable to respond to voicemails within your usual timeframe, this might be because you are away or you need some quiet time, advise callers when they can expect to hear from you. Remember cells phones are a fabulous tool if used productively and with sensitivity for those around you.
Copyright © Neen James 2008. Global productivity expert. http://www.neenjames.com
Have a great weeken 
Lorraine
www.powerfull-living.biz
Brennan Kingsland on 25 Jun 2008 at 11:09 am: 1
Excellent post! Cell phones are so ubiquitous, that we’ve become accustomed to seeing people who look like they’re talking to themselves everywhere we go.
I’d like to emphasize a couple of things:
FIRST, I’m happy for anyone to use their cell phones as a matter of convenience, but I have no desire to be a part of their conversation. Users need to modulate their voices, rather than inflicting the conversation on everyone around them. Just because someone can carry on a conversation in a grocery store, or elsewhere, doesn’t mean we all need to be bombarded with it.
It’s simple common courtesy to be aware of the people around you and NOT impose on their auditory space. Noise pollution is noise pollution, even if the cell phone user likes being the center of attention.
SECOND, your suggestion to ask whether “this is a good time to talk” is valuable for both cell and land line usage. I can’t tell you how many people call me and start launching into a long-winded conversation, without bothering to check whether I am in the middle of an urgent project
or not.
I like to think of myself as a cheerful and good-natured person, but the repetition of little irritants and discourtesies can be very annoying.
lorraine on 25 Jun 2008 at 11:25 am: 2
Boy I really relate to the same points as you Brennan
Whether someone calls me at home or on my cell, the simple question of asking whether I’m available to talk is something I really appreciate and extend to others. It provides the invitation and acceptance for that conversation to occur.
Hearing people’s conversation out in the world is not my prefence either. While I am guilty of this on very few occasions, that is not a habit I wish to cultivate. I do realize there might be situations when needing to be available by phone might be essential.
Bottom line - the degree of accessibility and dependency on phones can distract us from being fully present to the people and situations in our lives.
Blessings,
Lorraine
Evelyn Lim on 25 Jun 2008 at 9:25 pm: 3
My husband swears by his handphone; perhaps very much so because he receives calls on business. For myself, often times, I find myself happy not to have any calls. I enjoy the silence - the bliss of not having the constant chatter.
I see people using them every where - at bus stops, the underground train, while shopping, etc. Not for me! I use mine mostly when I need to convey a message quickly. I also do not enjoy text messaging all that much either!
lorraine on 26 Jun 2008 at 10:29 am: 4
I’m with you Evelyn
I use mine for emergencies or personal calls which are infrequent. I like having it if I need it without NEEDING it or being so accessible. I enjoy the quiet and being fully present with foks when I’m out.
Headphones for ipod on 30 Jun 2008 at 8:05 pm: 5
Great post, I really enjoyed it. I will have to bookmark this site for later.
lorraine on 30 Jun 2008 at 8:35 pm: 6
Thanks Sharon,
This was a guest post that has some great tips.
Best,
Lorraine